I was a groomsman at a good friend’s wedding yesterday. Cheval and I met in a men’s group several years ago, and have kept in touch since then. Cheval is a man’s man. He has served his country and his God well. He is one of that rare breed of men who has really been there and done that.
Having been there and done that changes a man. In some cases, it hardens a man and calluses his heart. However, in his case, it strengthened, deepened, and sensitized him. He has a depth and a warmth that draws people to him and soon points them to the One he loves.
I’ve been with Cheval during some dark times, when it seemed that his hopes and dreams were being dashed. It is in those times, times of trial and pain, that we see what a man is made of, who he truly is and what he truly values. In those times, I knew a man who was strong enough to call for help, to grieve well his loss, and to throw his life, his hopes and dreams completely into the hands of the One who is especially fond of him, who says, “I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
We saw a glimpse of those plans yesterday. I was witness to his marriage. I saw how he honors DeMarquine (Dee), and how she adores him. I saw how her sons respect and love this man, their new father. I saw it in their eyes and heard it in their words. Cheval, I could not have hoped for a better wife for you. The One who does all things well has outdone Himself this time: plans to prosper you, plans to give you hope and a future, indeed! (more…)